What a woman desires?

A man may be the ruler in the family because he is the bread earner, but whether he is a complete man in eye of the woman, this question is still undecided and none could give a suitable reply to this question. The woman when she is at the house of her own parents and when she comes of age and the parents or she herself starts searching for her life companion, she has got some dreams and expectations in her mind. she wants that her would be husband should be a handsome person, should be properly educated, should be properly trained, should be adjusted at work, should be having sufficient income, should be having good reputation, should be having a sound health, should be well adjusted in the society, should be having normal responsibilities, should be having a suitable accommodation to live, should have chances of promotions, should be having some property, should be having some bank balances, should be a clean person and should not be a drunkard, should not be an opium eater, should not be a drug addict, should not be having relations with other women and people may be talking about his good character. She wants that the man should start loving her and should be able to take all responsibilities of maintaining her and understanding her nature and should remain like a friend and not like lord over her. These are the dreams of the woman and if a man examines himself, he is not fulfilling all these desires of the woman. Therefore, the man may be the ruler of the house, but he cannot claim that he is the same person which was in the heart of the woman whom he has brought to his house as his wife.

It is the tragedy with the woman that she is not getting the man of her desire and for whom she had been preparing herself. The man she finds is often lacking so many items enumerated above and that is the reason most of the husbands are running away from the house and are spending more and more time out of the house. Some start taking drugs, become drunkards and some start taking opium. Therefore, the woman must realize that she should adjust herself with the man who has been selected for her as her life companion and she must understand that none could find a person who could be complete in all respects. The man is never complete, the woman is never complete and therefore, the woman must understand that she too is not the same woman which had been in the heart of her man. The only out-way is to adjust in life. All are not having love marriages and even then they spend life happily. 
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